That she occasionally communicated after long bouts of silence may be making. However, the no contact rule will help you in your healing process because the worst thing you can do is risk falling back into his toxic web again. I stood up for myself maybe I that was not the right way, but if our love was real, he wouldn’t have left. The pain after the break-up will be excruciating regardless of your rationalizing and the fact that you are better off. On the other hand, when you go radio silent and go off the radar, it shows your ex that you dont care (even if you do) about them. "It may be used as a way to offset feelings of fatigue or depletion associated with the expectation of an unpleasant interaction," she explained. It’s been radio silence for another week. The silent treatment is not always motivated by an intent to harm another person or punish their behavior, said study author Kristin Sommer, Ph.D, an associate professor of psychology at Baruch College, City University of New York. It's considered a manipulative way to communicate dissatisfaction and a passive form of rejection.īut this new research has identified at least some situations when silence might be golden: When people are strongly motivated to avoid social interaction with an undesirable person, giving the silent treatment may be as easy - if not easier - than a conversation. When you do not call, text, or see your ex after breaking up, you are following the rules of no contact. This means they often are the ones to initiate breakups. They can set themselves up for disappointment if they put their partners high up on pedestals which they often do. Those with the Virgo sun sign are highly analytical and tend to look for perfection. When to use: As the last follow-up email when the prospect has not responded to any of your previous emails. These are prospects who showed an interest in your product, engaged with your emails but suddenly went cold. That's because the silent treatment can speak volumes, even when someone is not saying a word or limiting their conversation to short or one-syllable responses.įrom a psychological standpoint, this brush-off technique is largely viewed in a negative light. The no contact rule is something you can follow after a breakup to get your ex back OR move on with your life. 7 Virgo - They Overanalyze How Their Relationships Went Wrong. When to use: When the prospect has gone cold after showing some interest.
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